I had a really good day yesterday. As I’m sitting here at my desk, munching a bowl of tortilla chips (hey, at least they’re in a bowl – I don’t just have the entire bag), I’m wondering why today wasn’t quite as productive and what I can learn from all of that.
So, what made yesterday successful and why didn’t those things happen today?
- No work yesterday; had to work this morning. After work, I had some errands to run so I didn’t get home until after 11. I grabbed something to eat and then had to run to Pilates. After Pilates, I ran back home, finished lunch and just had a few minutes before I had to pick up kids from school and run kid-related errands. I just got back home a few minutes ago. So, today’s schedule was busier; I didn’t have all that free time to myself.
2. Diet: I ate better yesterday (no bowl of chips). I’ve done pretty well with no sugar today so that’s one win. Fridays are hard because Pilates is at noon exactly. So I’m not really hungry before I go. Afterwards, I’m starving so I come home and eat whatever is quickest, which often doesn’t equal healthiest. I need to come up with a plan for Friday lunch.
3. Horses got out yesterday and I played with my pet duck. Today it rained. Not much I can do about that. And, with my schedule today, I didn’t have time to spend in the barn. I do still need to go throw everyone hay. I could spend a few minutes with Hazelnut the duck when I’m in the barn in a few minutes.
O.k., so there’s a few things I can change and a few things that are just out of my control (time at work, rain, errands – well, errands are sort of in my control). But either way, I’m not feeling bad about today and that in itself is an accomplishment.
Things I did well today:
- Went to AAA to get some DMV stuff sorted out that I had been dreading. It wasn’t as bad or difficult as I had made it up to be in my head.
2. I’m taking the time to post here in my blog. Even if no one else reads this, its important for me to do for myself. So it counts as a “me” thing, which I’m terrible about making time for.
3. I spent a little bit extra time at work today chatting with some friends. We continued our conversation from the other day about how we’re going to make this year different and focus more on ourselves (we’re all wives, moms, working, etc.). I realized that they really can be a good support for me (I struggle with feeling like I have friends). On Monday we’re all going to report to each other what we did for ourselves this weekend. I don’t want to let them down!!!
The biggest thing I accomplished today was not beating myself up and maintaining a positive attitude. Baby steps!